Wednesday, December 31, 2014

10 things you can do today to make your day happiers

Happiness is so interesting, because we all have different ideas about what it is and how to get it. It’s also no surprise that it’s the Nr.1 value for Buffer’s culture, if you see our slidedeck about it. So naturally we are obsessed with it.
I would love to be happier, as I’m sure most people would, so I thought it would be interesting to find some ways to become a happier person that are actually backed up by science. Here are ten of the best ones I found.
1. Exercise more – 7 minutes might be enough:
You might have seen some talk recently about the scientific 7 minute workout mentioned in The New York Times. So if you thought exercise was something you didn’t have time for, maybe you can fit it in after all.
Exercise has such a profound effect on our happiness and well-being that it’s actually been proven to be an effective strategy for overcoming depression. In a study cited in Shawn Achor’s book, The Happiness Advantage, three groups of patients treated their depression with either medication, exercise, or a combination of the two. The results of this study really surprised me. Although all three groups experienced similar improvements in their happiness levels to begin with, the follow up assessments proved to be radically different:
The groups were then tested six months later to assess their relapse rate. Of those who had taken the medication alone, 38 percent had slipped back into depression. Those in the combination group were doing only slightly better, with a 31 percent relapse rate. The biggest shock, though, came from the exercise group: Their relapse rate was only 9 percent!
You don’t have to be depressed to gain benefit from exercise, though. It can help you to relax, increase your brain power and even improve your body image, even if you don’t lose any weight.
A study in the Journal of Health Psychology found that people who exercised felt better about their bodies, even when they saw no physical changes:
Body weight, shape and body image were assessed in 16 males and 18 females before and after both 6 × 40 mins exercise and 6 × 40 mins reading. Over both conditions, body weight and shape did not change. Various aspects of body image, however, improved after exercise compared to before.
We’ve explored exercise in depth before, and looked at what it does to our brains, such as releasing proteins and endorphins that make us feel happier, as you can see in the image below.
2. Sleep more – you’ll be less sensitive to negative emotions
We know that sleep helps our bodies to recover from the day and repair themselves, and that it helps us focus and be more productive. It turns out, it’s also important for our happiness.
In NutureShock, Po Bronson and Ashley Merryman explain how sleep affects our positivity:
Negative stimuli get processed by the amygdala; positive or neutral memories gets processed by the hippocampus. Sleep deprivation hits the hippocampus harder than the amygdala. The result is that sleep-deprived people fail to recall pleasant memories, yet recall gloomy memories just fine.
In one experiment by Walker, sleep-deprived college students tried to memorize a list of words. They could remember 81% of the words with a negative connotation, like “cancer.” But they could remember only 31% of the words with a positive or neutral connotation, like “sunshine” or “basket.”
The BPS Research Digest explores another study that proves sleep affects our sensitivity to negative emotions. Using a facial recognition task over the course of a day, the researchers studied how sensitive participants were to positive and negative emotions. Those who worked through the afternoon without taking a nap became more sensitive late in the day to negative emotions like fear and anger.
Using a face recognition task, here we demonstrate an amplified reactivity to anger and fear emotions across the day, without sleep. However, an intervening nap blocked and even reversed this negative emotional reactivity to anger

Wednesday, December 10, 2014

Heart touching real love story

Hi
There was a boy and a girl.
They were best friends for years and years.
They could talk for hours on the phone and text each others for days,
When they were together.

Not a single bad thought could cross their mind,
Every thing was great but one day;
The boy din't answer to call or reply to any text for a day..
The girl was worried something is wrong..
At night she couldn't sleep.., she was sitting in her room crying,
And it was then she realized hoe much he means to her ...?
THE next morning:
She woke up from a call; it was boy...:)
BOY:hey?
GIRL: i am so glad that you called me,what happened to you yesterday?
BOY: I was busy..

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( The girl understood something wrong but couldn't ask)
[ silence]
BOY: you know we should stop talking...!
GIRL: what..? but why??
BOY: sorry, bye..!
[ He disconnected the call the girl felt somebody has slammed the door on her face]
Every thing else flashed in her mind ,
Tears;
Cars running by her.
Roof of some building and sunset...
She couldn't understand any thing..
She started feeling lonely, rejected and broken..:(
That was the answer to every thing! his words were pouncing on her.
Her heart wanted to jump out.!
He was the one! "why".....?
She screamed at the top of her voice:
Then she made up mind to make a last try to get him back....!
[ she called him up]
GIRL: HI!
BOY: WHY ARE YOU CALLING ME??
GIRL: i need to tell u something...
BOY : go ahead.
GIRL: I just wanted you to know something before we stopped talking.
BOY:tell me !
GIRL: Are you alright??
[ She broke off ......!
She tried but maybe he really doesn't care for her,
She thought !
She wasn't her friend for first place......
TEARS were slowly running worst,.....:((
She left the house with a note....!
{ 5 HOURS LATER}
Phone rang in boy's room,
It was girl's mum,
The girl was lying in the Hospital got hit by car,:-(
The boy rushed to the hospital were she was.
She Opened he eyes with boy's name...,
He took her hand..
BOY: I am sorry its all my fault....! but?
I promise when U Get better I'II MAKE IT UP TO YOU..(
GIRL: I wont get better.
BOY: NO..! Don"t say that...(
GIRL: just tell me one thing why did you do it??
Boy told her that he had heart problem 'n
he didn't want her to be worried;
'n there was a risk he would have died..!
BOY : I did that because I...I...I...I LOVE YOU...?
GIRL ; I LOVE YOU TOO..? after that her heart stopped beating ..... she died..!
The boy died after 10 minutes later from heart attack ....
HE COULD NOT LIVE WITH THE THOUGHT THAT SHE DIED BECAUSE OF HIM..
- MORAL
if you love sm1..?
Then don'y hold back your feelings..
Because love is the reason to live..
LOVE IS BEAUTIFUL...!????

Thursday, December 4, 2014

15 Facts Everyone Should Know, but Most People DonT know

Someone posted the question, "What fact should be common knowledge, but isn't?" and it received over 1,800 responses. Here are the most popular, backed with evidence.
1. Goldfish bowls are really bad places to keep goldfish.
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They're too small to allow for adequate filtration and don't provide enough oxygen. Goldfish bowls are the equivalent to putting your goldfish in the toilet and expecting him to show you his best colors, grow to the size of a softball, and never get sick.
The natural lifespan of a goldfish is years, not weeks. These two facts are related. This goes for Beta fish as well.

2. If you put the lid down in a porta-potty, the smell will vent out that tube in the top and not into the john itself.
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Hopefully your next music festival will be a bit less smelly.
3. The sites you see when you Google for something are different from what others see if they Google for the same thing.
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Google builds a user profile and shows you sites that align with what you previously clicked on. As time goes on, this positive reinforcement makes you think the world agrees with your ideas more than it actually does.
4. If you are unfortunate enough to need to go to the hospital uninsured (in the US) the astronomical bill they give you is NOT what they intend on you paying.
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Call them and tell them your situation. No hospital expects a patient to come up with 100k for a surgery, the bill is intended for the insurance company because they haggle prices to get to a final bill. They will GREATLY reduce payment if you cannot afford it. Too many people go without care because they think that a hospital visit will bankrupt them when its not true. Some hospitals will even wave the bill completely under certain circumstances.
5. Claudette Colvin was the first black woman not to give up her seat to a white woman on a bus, not Rosa Parks.
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Parks was Secretary for the NAACP at the time and when Colvin's actions hit the news the NAACP thought the tactic was a great way to bring eyes and ears to their cause. Since Colvin was merely a child (15 years old) they didn't want to seem like they were exploiting her so they chose Parks as the "face of the movement". When Rosa Parks boarded the bus that day it was under instruction to refuse to give up her seat in the front of the bus; copying Colvin's actions and refocusing the attention on an adult who was better suited to handle the media attention and interviews.
6. Feeding bread to ducks is harmful to them.
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Any artificial feeding of waterfowl leads to a surplus of fecal bacteria, poor animal nutrition and even affects migration patterns. White bread in particular distracts ducks from their natural healthy diets and can lead to unhealthy diseases.
7. Ctrl+Shift+T restores your closed tabs in Chrome, and Ctrl+Alt+Shift+T restores entire closed windows.
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This will save you a lot of frustration. You're welcome!
8. Antibiotics are ineffective against viruses.
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So if you have what is probably a viral infection (like a cold or most throat infections) do NOT take them and don't pester your doctor for them. The number of doctors who hand antibiotics out like sweets because patients expect to be given something is ridiculous. You have an immune system. Antibiotics kill bacteria only!
9. Ιf you plug in earbuds/headphones іn the microphone jack, they'll functіon as microphones.
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Internally the components are very similar. Try it!
10. Your blood isn't blue inside your body.
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It's always red. It only appears blue because of the way light interacts with your skin.
11. Humans do, in fact, use 100% of their brain.
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Just not all at the same time. That would result in a seizure.
12. Alcohol is a drug.
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So are cigarettes (nicotine) and caffeine. Anything that alters your state of mind is a drug.
13. Frankenstein is the doctor.
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